Today in Awful Statistics: Women in the Military More Likely to be Raped by Fellow Soldiers than Kiled in Combat

That sexism and misogyny is still rampant in the military is not in itself surprising, but we were shocked to discover just how bad it is:

“There are three types of women in the Army,” says Rebecca Havrilla, a former sergeant and explosive-ordnance-disposal technician. “Bitch, dyke, and whore.” During the four years that Havrilla was on active duty, she was called all three—by fellow soldiers, team leaders, even unit commanders. Once, during a sexual-assault prevention training, the 28-year-old South Carolina native claims, she watched a fellow soldier—male—strip naked and dance on top of a table as the rest of the team laughed. While deployed in Afghanistan, Havrilla spent four months working under a man she alleges bit her neck, pulled her into his bed, and grabbed her butt and waist—on a daily basis. When, on the last day of her deployment, she alleges she was raped by a soldier she considered a friend, it was, she says, “the icing on the cake.”

Havrilla and 16 others filed a lawsuit yesterday charging none other than Def. Sec.’s Robert Gates and his predecessor Don Rumsfeld with violating their Constitutional rights by failing to deal with the problem in any substantial way. Turns out, the military is above the law—literally—when it comes to sexual harassment and workplace equality:

“For lots of reasonable historical bases, the military has a level of civil immunity in our society which is quite high,” investigator Rohman says. “There’s a downside to that: their lack of external accountability means that they have not had to adjust in the way the rest of society has.” In particular, a 1950 Supreme Court ruling, known as the Feres Doctrine, places the military beyond the reach of workplace laws regarding sexual discrimination and sexual harassment. To make matters worse, charges are usually investigated within the immediate chain of command. “There’s no investigatory training. They don’t tell you to look for evidence,” says Greg Jacob, who spent 10 years in the Marines and rose to the rank of captain. Instead, they hand over a manual for courts martial, which explains, among other things, that the investigating officer should consider, first and foremost, “the character and military service of the accused.” Jacob says that essentially means weighing each soldier’s past and future value to the unit.

Catch that part? It’s the equivalent of being raped by a coworker, and having your boss decide who’s right and who’s wrong simply by deciding which one of you is worth more to him. Horrifying. Read the rest.

Today in Products that Shouldn’t Exist: The Wolf-Whistle Horn. And Also: Help a Sister Out?

Reader Laura Birek, from Echo Park, Los Angeles, blew our minds today. Her story:

I’ve come to accept the fact that getting cat-called is just a fact of life. It still pisses me off to no end, but I’ve stopped being surprised when it happens every single time I walk down my street or stand on my porch. But recently, I was walking home and I heard a CAR HORN whistle at me. Some guy had actually installed a special horn just to use for cat-calling women. I just looked them up, and apparently they’re very affordable, too!
I’m not sure what to make of this. Whenever I complain about cat-calls to my guy friends, they ask why I don’t find these whistles flattering. I always tell them that it has nothing to do with being attractive or sexy, but that the cat-calls are just a way to instantaneously put me in my place. It doesn’t matter that I have a master’s degree, suddenly I’m reduced to just tits and ass walking down the street. It doesn’t matter that I have a great, high-paying job, because it’s clear that my only value to society is in how attractive I am to men. It doesn’t matter that I’m just trying to walk to the corner store in completely unrevealing clothing, because my body is simply entertainment for passing misogynists.

First of all, um WTF. Can you imagine the meeting in which this product was pitched and approved? And what kind of dude would actually spend $19.95 on this crap?

The other day I was aggressively cat-called while I was walking to work. I did what I always do: scowled, ignored them, and picked up my pace. But then I started thinking that my basically passive response is ultimately like letting them win. Surely there must be some way to shame these assholes into shutting up. Readers, help a sister out. Advice?

Update: We just discovered a documentary about this issue, War Zone, by Maggie Hadleigh West. West turned her camera on the callers. We think there’s another woman, a Lower East Side photographer, who did a similar, lighter series, but we forget her name. Anyone know it?

Daily (Not Really Daily) Dose of Douchebaggery

Some awesome dude, in response to Jessica Valenti’s recent WashPost column, “For Women In America, Equality is Still an Illusion.“ 

“MAFIA, Men Against Feminist’s In America, is taking applications. We must counter the lies of the NOW, NARAL and Planned UnParents in the Hoods adherents. Women have become the spoiled class of liars…I have served globally and can say with authority that U.S. females are becoming a threat that will have to be dealt with legislatively if the record is to be set straight. Unfeminine feminist’s are liars; Jessica is your typical VICTIM. Sickening dribble from a fem spoiled liar.”